ANGER MANAGEMENT AND STARTING DATING AGAIN THE I KNOW, I DO NOT KNOW AND I WILL NOT TELL TYPES

INTRODUCTION The anger management and starting dating again the know, I don't know and I won't tell types is an article dedicated to my single friends, my single clients who have been asking me to write this article and to all singles out there who are struggling to make a sense out of what is going through their dates' minds and some of whom might end up feeling angry. In terms of the anger management, I hope that you will find the article useful in that that it will shed a light on my hyp...
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THE ANGER MANAGEMENT ISSUES AND THE EXHILARATING FEELING OF SETTING ONESELF FREE FROM A CHRONICALLY ABUSIVE FAMILY

When it comes to the anger management issues and the exhilarating feeling of decision to set oneself finally free from the tentacles of our chronically abusive family, some of us might raise an eyebrow and think that this might be a little bit extreme decision. I disagree and I will explain in this article why. In a society in which we are born and thrown into the world and without our permission and into the arms of some good and some bad parents, we are being constantly reminded that fa...
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ANGER MANAGEMENT BY COURT ORDER

The consequences of anger management issues are not only limited to our relationships but can in some cases also extend to police, social services or court involvement. Following chronic, repeated and violent outbursts of anger some people instead of using primary preventative steps through counselling or couples therapy support, instead choose to seek as primary support police or social services. Once the police and social services get involved, and a fight over custody of the children starts...
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ANGER MANAGEMENT, BULLIED TARGETS AND DELINQUENCY

WHY IS ANGER MANAGEMENT INEVITABLE FOR BULLIED TARGETS? This article aims to answer the above question about why anger management could be useful in supporting bullied targets who could in some cases develop into people with anti-social personality traits. I have described in many articles on this website why anger therapy sessions could be useful for people with obvious anger issues. Today, I am going little more deeper and I will try to provide the reasons for why such sessions could be a...
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WHAT ROLE PLAYS CONFIDENCE IN ANGER MANAGEMENT?

LABELLING THE BULLIES Some people who come to Anger Therapy London for anger management or for support related to issues with domestic violence are quick to point the finger at their partners and labelling them as abusive bullies. Such people often feel powerless, devastated and complain to their friends of being victims of domestic violence. They are even quick to report their abusive partners to social services, or police and this may lead at times to irreversible damage not only to their par...
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ANGER MANAGEMENT, UNEMPLOYMENT AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

When it comes to clients who seek anger management because of domestic violence issues, there are a number of different causes that trigger and escalate the conflict at home into a verbal or physical violence. I have been observing over the years that one of the causes of domestic violence is unemployment probably because of the strain of the financial stress this puts on the couple in London one of the most expensive cities in the World. One study carried out by Holmes and Rahe (1967) inves...
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FAMILY ANGER MANAGEMENT

When clients refer for anger management the issue can concern the individual or it can extend to the whole family. Every family has a different style like every company has a different organizational culture. Some theorists believe that the family issues that could lead to aggression or passive aggressive behaviour could be caused by pathological issues in the family system or by one individual and the issues within the family are then secondary. During the family or one-to-one session, it gr...
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CHRISTMAS DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ALCOHOL-INDUCED AGGRESSION

I have discussed on this website a number of different aggressions and outburst of anger causes and today I will discuss domestic violence and alcohol-induced aggression and this is important for some of us during the Christmas season when there is an abundance of alcohol. The Christmas season is an annual and universal period of great joy, celebrations of the birth of Jesus Christ, the time of reflection, the family feast of Christmas that is preceded by the Christmas office alcohol-f...
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ANGRY CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE OUTBURSTS

In the recent years, there has been a rise in the media of the child sexual abuse reporting. The child sexual abuse news reports have been disseminating into the public eye the shocking reality behind the abuse of power by people in authority as depicted in the film Spotlight, The Savile Scandal that exploded in 2012 or the most recent news report on the football sex abuse victims. These reports meant that the child sex abuse culmination in the media gave the victims a voice, recognition, and ...
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JEALOUS ANGRY OUTBURSTS

Jealousy is a profound anxiety that is triggered by a perceived sense of threat, insecurity and fear of losing the affections of one who is loved and this could lead to conflicts, angry outbursts, rage and even murder. The angry ouburstsO induced by jealousy in people who have a history of violent angry outbursts coupled with substance misuse could have devastating consequences. Most of us are familiar with the crimes of passion which are linked to jealousy and humongous angry outbursts ...
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